March 30, 2020 | Friendship


All: With the Lord there is mercy and fullness of redemption.

Psalm 130

Side 1: I trust in the Lord; my soul trusts in his word.
Side 2: My soul waits for the Lord more than sentinels wait for the dawn.
Leader: “When Jesus saw Mary weeping and the others who had come with her weeping, he became perturbed and deeply troubled, and said, “Where have you laid him?  They said to him, “Sir, come and see.’ And Jesus wept.”  John 11:33-35
The centerpiece of this fifth week of our Lenten retreat is the story of Jesus raising Lazarus from the dead.
In this story, it is easy to miss the central part played by relationship. There is very little in our lives that is not rooted in relationships. These connections draw us deep into life’s meaning. They call us to our best selves, to faithful companionship and to conversion of life when we fail others in that companionship.
Reader 1: The household in Bethany of Martha, Mary and their brother, Lazarus, was dear to Jesus. He had spent many hours among them, enjoying their hospitality and a fully mutual friendship. From his childhood on, Jesus learned the ways of friendship, and, like any us, his friendships deepened his humanity and helped teach him about God (see Hebrews 5:7-10).
Reader 2: We can easily understand Jesus’ weeping at the death of his friend Lazarus. This came from the depths of his human experience. But we need also to understand the mystery of his weeping from the depths of his being as God. For Christians, Jesus is both fully human and fully the Son of God. In this story we see him fully inhabiting both realities. The deep groan from within him is also God’s heartbreak in the face of human suffering and loss. To submit to relationship in this broken world is to choose to love and, in that love, to risk suffering. This story helps us see that God loves us, and in choosing this love, chooses to suffer not only for us, but with us and alongside us, every step of the way.
Reader 3: In our health care ministry we are privileged to glimpse this mystery every day: families who keep faithful vigil for days or weeks at the bedside of dying loved ones; colleagues who reach out in support of one another in time of need; volunteers who show up faithfully to visit those in long-term care. The faithfulness of others is a testament to the God who has chosen to be in relationship with us and will not rest until that relationship is fully healed of all suffering and death. Until the story is fully done and creation once again the Garden that God intended, God journeys with us, sorrows for and within us. The unique friendship of Jesus with Lazarus and his sisters became the means of his greatest miracle and prelude to his own resurrection. Our own friendship with God and one another, especially in our health care setting, offers us this same tender hope of life and resurrection.
Leader: For Reflection
“No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”   John 15:13
How can you continue to nurture God’s friendship with you this Lent?
What friendships in your life lift you up and speak to you of God’s friendship? How can you express your gratitude for them?
Is there a relationship at work or among your friends that needs mending this Lent?

Intentional Prayer

Leader: Hear our cry for mercy, O Lord, we pray:
All: Faithful Lord, hear our prayer.
Reader 1: For all those who have died and for those who mourn them, we pray:
All: Faithful Lord, hear our prayer.
Reader 2: For CommonSpirit Health to minister to our communities with great compassion, we pray:
All: Faithful Lord, hear our prayer.
Reader 3: For those who are caring for elderly parents and for their peace of mind, we pray:
All: Faithful Lord, hear our prayer.
Reader 4: For those who must live with the uncertainty of illness, we pray:
All: Faithful Lord, hear our prayer.
All: Personal Petitions:
All: The Lord’s Prayer

Our Father…

Closing Prayer

Leader: Let us pray together,
All: Tender and loving God, your gift of friendship lifts our hearts in hope and gratitude. Our relationship with you calls us to relationship with our friends and with all those we serve in our health care ministry. Continue your friendship with us, Lord. Lift us up and keep us faithful in friendship to one another, that your healing purposes may shine through this broken, beloved world. In your holy name we pray. Amen.
Leader: Taste and see the goodness of the Lord.
Peace be with you all and have a most wonderful week!